"Whenever you win, your mom wins" - my mom. Its probably one of my fav sayings in the whole universe.
I was a bit lost in college. Found this slack message I sent to my research program slack during a rough time in October 2020. Posting the screenshot for anyone who is going through a rough week.
Building is brutal, and you need a strong "Why?" to get through the pain of it. But equally important, dont forget to keep your biggest supporters in the loop. Share the wins with them, even the small ones, even if they dont understand half of what you do.
If your mom is one of those supporters (and most likely she is), call her today and tell her something youre proud of. She doesnt need to understand the details. Just give her a reason to feel the win.
Tbh I kinda forgot this part for a while. I don't think I share the small wins with her anymore. Really glad I got reminded today.
And Im glad I now get to build something for moms like mine, the ones who give up parts of their own life so their kids can win.
Happy mothers day to all the moms.
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