There is an interesting dichotomy when it comes to attracting women through status as a man that me and a close friend have been discussing quite in depth recently and I think its worth extrapolating because there's an incredible richness to it, multilayered concepts interacting with one another and each concept can go five different ways
Typically I think it is a negative move to lead with status as a man even though you should definitely have it on the backend because having capital, freedom, optionality and multiple sources of income is a backend necessity if you want to live at that top level but the problem is when you think a woman choosing you because you display status is the same thing as her chosing you because of who you are, how you see the world, what you want to build and create with your life and if she can align herself with that on a spiritual level whilst retaining her own autonomy and clarity.
Another caveat is most men think I seek a high quality woman so I can offset responsibilities onto her or some of this nonsense, I dont want a world class woman to rely on like a mother, I just want to ensure I do the very best to make sure everything in my life that I have to interact with is pristine and clear and I have validated the thinking of everyone who I interact with so I can play my best moves without second guessing myself, high value women possess deep agency and clarity which is refreshing and beautiful to be around. Plus if she is in an environment with others you have to be able to know she is solid on her own two feet.
I am talking about a long term relationship here. If you're just looking for a one night stand none of this is relevant; I dont understand why you would waste your time on such matters personally but thats me.
The woman who is perceptive enough to the depth of you and the way you see things and a high quality woman who genuinely makes an effort to love you and yearn for you is a completely different spiritual manifestation rather than a woman who is just with you because you have a decent car and you pop a couple bottles at some low level club and hang around with criminal degenerate thugs who make you think you are a big player in the global sphere because you have a grip over some local circuit of any country because she cannot discern between competence and power, many women conflate these deeply which is why insecure men seek status and power because they know for certain women it essentially lowers their intrinsic reproductive protective instincts and he then thinks he is the guy or he then thinks he is THAT guy because of these shallow victories. Most men who are hellbent on status are predatory when they are singular minded. If status is acquired by some form of purist pursuit this is a different matter.
If you do lead with status and you bring her into your world thats fine and you will attract a lot of women but over the long term you will just end up wasting time as you have no idea what is truly high leverage in long term sexual dynamics where you have a high quality woman soul tied to you and It's going to be more difficult for you to build truly world class relationships with other beautiful women because you have been so used to letting the status do the heavy lifting for you, you have no capacity or skills to generate results through the emotional arts rather than the more direct ones.
Plus also when you're playing power games at high levels you should really be using your image as a shield rather than an attractor, but you have to be at a good level in life to percieve this shift because when you're objectively a nobody typically your brain works in a certain way of ATTACK, acquire resources, girls, valuable commmodities; oh i want everyone to know my name know my face know who I am but once you have all these things and you have all the skills to further generate them at will; it no longer becomes about pursuit and search but about protection, deflection, balancing social incentives with your own incentives and moving through the game of life as a ghost in the machine, who is that fucking guy why is he always in a another country, why does he always have this woman glued to his arm rolling him cigarrettes in the bar but then when I speak to him he's just super interested in me and what im doing, many high level operators play these sorts of games and they usually can always tell when someone else is playing those sorts of angles, so if someone ever gives you a look or a nod like that at a table, smile and look away.
This is all dependent on your desire to be known and respected but they're interesting angles to cover, I think its way more baller if a woman basically knows nothing about who you are or what you do but you're able to provide a world class life for you both, have incredible amounts of fun with her and not bring boatloads of stupid unneccessary attention to yourself on the front end that would really only equate to women liking you who are abit lower on the spiritual quality scale anyway
